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I have already written how at the end of the relationship with the sociopath you go through. It can be difficult when you are in initial stages of break up. The pain can feel overwhelming. A question that is often asked, is how long is this going to last for? Is this going to get worse? You feel awful, empty, bereft and the pain can feel overwhelming.
I told him I would not get involved since he was with someone else. We started spending more time together and I was happy. Other than being raped as a teenager, he is the only guy I have slept with and he was so sweet and considerate about it. He told me he loved me and had never felt this way about anyone else and his feelings were so intense they scared him.
I fell in love with him and was so happy. I got pregnant, it was not planned, and he changed. He tried to force me to have an abortion and then tried to pressure me into adoption. He bailed and I found out he had never broken up with his girlfriend. I also find out he has issues with porn and finding women online for sex.
I was still in love and wanted my baby to have his father and foolishly thought he would change and we could work things out even though he was still with the gf. He then runs hot and cold with me and I never know what kind of mood he will be in from one day to the next. He bails on drs apts and ultrasounds. He informed me his gf would help him raise his baby and proceeds to give me orders about what is going to happen and who will do what when the baby is born.
I cut contact with him. When my son is born he shows up at the hospital with his gf. My brother refused to let her in the room. While I am lying in bed after a C-section this jerk tells my mother I owe his gf an apology for fooling around with her man and trying to steal him away.
My mother got in his face and confronted him and asked specific questions. He got this evil sneer on his face and his eyes went wild and the tone of his voice changed.
Wow what happened to the charming sweet guy I had been friends with for two years and fell in love with?! He then told me he and his gf would be coming and taking the baby for a few days when we got home. She has since moved very close to him. I told him no.
He showed up at my home and physically threatened me and my mother threw him out. He hates my mother, has issues with women. Makes smart aleck remarks about his female boss and other women.
I tried to tell his gf I was sorry she was hurt and I would have never gotten involved with him but he lied and told me they were through. They are living the fantasy that they were a loving committed couple and I am the whore that seduced him and tried to break them up. Even though he had multiple flings of cheating on her, this was all MY fault according to them! And she is now trying to play Mommy with my son to get back at me. He then sued me for custody.
We went through three rounds of mediation and one trial. I have appealed the decision because in true sociopath fashion he managed charm the mediator, judge, and his attorney. My son was nursing every two hours. There was no way he could be away from me overnight nor could I possibly pump more. I was only nursing until he was 1 year old when he could have whole milk and then he could spend the night with his father.
I was told I was going to have to mix breastmilk with formula against drs orders or figure out how to produce more milk! Yet I am the selfish one! And he is the poor mistreated father of the year! He actually got credit for overpayment of child support for that reason.
I can see it in his eyes. I have gone the tenth mile with him and been flexible with visitation. I buy gifts for him and his family from our son for bday, Christmas, fathers day, etc. But nothing I ever do is good enough. He demands rather than asks for anything. And everything is always my fault and he never takes responsibility for anything, he always turns it around on me. I finally saw the more I did the more he expected and used as an excuse to walk all over me.
He has kept our son two hours later on three occasions. I asked him to respect the parenting plan and he accused me of keeping his son from him. He treats him more like a possession and a trophy. These articles hit so close to home and describe so well and give great advice.
I feel so stupid for being duped by him. I would love to read more insight on how to co-parent with a sociopath. So sorry for what you are going through as well. Thanks for your kinds words. It is so hard to deal with this type of personality. This is the saddest, most terrible story. I am so sorry for your pain and what you are going through. These people are sick. His GF is sick too. I am so sorry xxxx.
Hi, its very difficult just where to begin with regard to my story? My storey. I emmigrated to Australia in with my wife and kids. My wife was beautiful and I know with everything in me she loved me with all my heart as I did her.
Unfortunately she suffered terribly with depression which I knew about when we first met but loved her and supported her the best I could have.
In Jan she completed suicide which left me in Australia with my two kids, running a business and also studying psychology. I stook it out for well over a year and made many mistakes along the way trying to cope with the grief. I made the descision to return to England to my home town to have the support of family and to make a new start.
I left this town initially when I was 16 to live with my dad. When we first saw each other it was almost electric, she was very beautiful and looked amazing. We chatted and told me she was married, worked in a care home and asked the same of me, so I told her briefly my storey and why I was back. Everything from there was very full on with messages from both of us and was such a great feeling. It was two weeks later we saw each other again and spoke all day and she later returned that evening.
I made no advance in the day but by her returning later on I knew where I stood! It was amazing and felt incredibly close and that was us. She left her husband and we dated. Through family I knew her relationship with her ex was violent. She said she never loved him and for the first time in her life she knows what it is to be in love with me. She could never see us arguing or falling out. After a hard marriage on both parts I desperatly wanted to make us work and just love her.
It was in her name for remaining loan as I had been out of the country but I paid the repayments. I bought a house for us all to live in and all seemed sweet but then things started to change. She had a temper and appeared very aggressive at times and shoved me about a bit then pleaded she was sorry when i bit back! I took her in Feb to New York where we got engaged crazy I know but even when we was there I was excited by what I saw but without her saying too much I never got a sense of appreciation?
After we returned it got very bad. My kids bear in mind had been through a hell of a lot where basically put through hell by her and her own! She threw her ring and said she was leaving. Back to her marital home but ex had gone. I still stayed with her and tried working things out but in April after a birthday weekend for her it all kicked off again.
Anyway she sold the car because it was in her name and bought another new one. I lost by this point but it was hers and nver did show any remorse. She then said losing me she has lost her everything and said she was depressed knowing its a subject close to my heart. I took her back. I also found out at this point she was messaging other guys via network site and was very flirty indeed! Anyway I took her backwent on holiday to Egypt where she nothing short of bullied my daughter aged 8.
I stood up to her and that was it again! Over but no, she played me again. Thats another storey! I meant it! All seemed good, she was on meds and seeing counselor. Then again I found out through my kids that she had change over this past few weeks. Was very hard on my daughter again yet her son could do know wrong!
He is a terror by the way! She reduced my daughter to tears and threatened but despite this my kids hid it from me, not wanting me to be cross! She is now gone, said my kids are lying and just want us to split up.
She was overheard by them bad mouthing me to her brother and bad mouthing them which she totally denied! We are over but I still question as I write thiscould I be so wrong? I just loved her so much and did all I could but was never enough i always felt.
I saw her in the playgound tonight, she was very smug and I had arranged to give all her stuff back that was at mine. That through everything I regret so much!! She removed my name from her within two days after Egypt holiday! Do you think I might have a sociapath as an ex?
I have my heart In my mouth as I think of your children. First losing their mother, and then this woman. She clearly has issues. To treat your children in this way is appalling. Their mother only died in I should have put a smiley on the end of my question asking if she is a sociopath because especially after reading on here I have no doubt at all! Your comment. It is the only comment I have read here, that has made me feel very sad. Perhaps that was because when this happened to me I was a grieving mother.
Which is why the last one faked that his daughters mother was dying of cancer it was all a lie and his daughter was going to have to live with us. It is really sad. No care for anybody else except themselves. Whatever she is. You need to take time out for you. Your grief was such a short time ago. She sounds selfish and wrapped up in herself and not good for you or your children. You talk about all of her needs.
After what was nothing short of abuse and bullying to my daughter whilst on holiday in Egypt in July, I thought I gave her it both barrels especially on our returnthats a story in itself and was over again. This was the time she admitted she had a problem and would do anythingie therapy! I also sat her down and just explained to her that my kids have been brought up differently to how yours have, there mum was incredibly loving and absolutely doted on the pair of them, I also said that my daughter craves female attention and could really be so close to youyou just have to be softer with her!
She said I know and Ill change! It didnt last and over this past month she slowly changed back and started snapping again then reducing my kids to tears! I think thats the hard thing aswell because when my wife died yes ofcourse it was devastaing and a shock, when I saw her gone there was almost instant closure. I lived with her depression for years and suicide always came up in conversationwhat Im saying is that there was always a possibility that this would happen and had no choice to accept and try to build a new life for us.
It was incredibly tough and ofcourse still is, my wifes memory is with me constantly. I guess what Im really saying is that I thought I was ready to love and be truly happy! Thats like a double whammy and hard to accept at the moment! I am very sorry to hear that you went through something very similarthrough reading I have caught bits of your experience but Im not fully aware! Just thankyou for this site, it is a great work you are doing and helpful to so many!
Its incredible to me that the spaths are so programmed and predictable, machine like, but only when you see the truth or have expreienced it! Shes still married and is someones wife.
10 Warning Signs That You're Dealing With a Sociopath, Narcissist, or Psychopath. Psychopaths spend their lives learning how to mimic normal human emotions, but they don't actually experience things like compassion and love. It takes recovery before dating. Dating abstinence is the way to go until we're fully well and truly recovered. For a good long time after a sociopath, or narcissistic pathological user, it's as if we're wearing a neon sign: Take a Bite and Pass Me Around. Seconds Available. Oct 11, "I am sure that if the devil existed, he would want us to feel very sorry for him." ? Martha Stout, "The Sociopath Next Door" Sociopaths are people with .
You can bet they were the instigator. Getting married knowing you dont love that person breeds only one thing resentment, which is then aimed at the other person through self hate and that emotion is misdirected.
Im telling you this man to man. Im also terribly sorry about your wifes suicide, that must leave you without the ability to completely achieve closure. My feeling is, and I might be wrong, just throwing out a bit of intuition after reading your postNo matter how long you dealt with her depression, and I know how trying that can be, you dont get quick closure when tragedies like that happen to people we Love My feeling is you are still dealing with that on such a deep levelnot realizing it since you might have tucked it away so far you wont let yourself see it hence why you maybe were blinded to this person you were recently involved with Take some time for yourself man, hang out with friends, family, etc etc.
I forgot one, Bewildered, you said you were studying psychology, Boundaries are a huge part of behavioral Psychology. Talking toflirting with and romancing someones wife shows a huge lack of boundariesas well as a huge lack of empathy for the spouse of that person.
Please man, think about this very hard before you brush it off. Did she divorce her husband or just move out still actively married? Did she show you divorce papers? ChristianI knew her as an old school friend, we chatted about old times and aquaintances! I didnt pursue her and actually made it very clear that it was very important that she work at her marriage because I would not come between that!
Why it's hard to get over a sociopath and how to recover
After two weeks of our first meet she had left him, filed for divorce which yes I saw the papers for! She told me that they had been on and off for years which was confirmed by my own mother who knew her!
Boundaries are extremely important in every ct of life, especially this ct.
I also understand these types of people can con you, reel you in, and convince you what YOU are doing is perfectly fine even if it goes against your better judgement. Keep your eyes openyour ears, and practice trusting your intuition She convinced you to ignore Boundaries, and forget about empathy The devil is very slick. Stay strong and stay away from her. Yes Christian a divorce takes a long time to complete!
If there are difficulties such as the spouse not wanting one or agreeing to the grounds of divorce then it can take years! Our relationship began when her relationship to him was over. Like I said. He moved straight out of there marital home and in no time met someone else who he is still with to this day!
He has never been hostile to me and in fact shook my hand on a number of occasions ie Christmas! I almost feel that he was glad to be rid as there relationship was very much on off. Thanks for your advice, been here before but feel this time things have gone way too far!
Why would she want you to get rid of a tattoo of your wife? That is outrageous. You were a widow and she was the mother of your children. Did she expect you to banish their mother from their life? I have such deep regret but I covered it with a rose which is symbolic to my late wife! I will be getting it altered and also having her name covered up next sat! Cant come quick enough! I feel so ashamed for how I have allowed this and to be controlled!
To be honest I have messed up so many times since my wifes death and this is my wake up call! Grief changes us.
Mar 15, A guide for healing and recovery When the truth comes to light of the crazy life that you have been living with a sociopath, when the lying, cheating, betrayal, deception comes out, you are left feeling massively confused and so very hurt, it is the ultimate betrayal. The person that you loved, that you shared. During PTSD after a sociopath, we're likely to look to alcohol, weed or other drugs to handle the shock, overwhelm mind-blowing stress and trauma. Avoid this as much as possible and within reason. Even non-drinkers dive in for a glass or three of wine or vodka in the months of PTSD after a sociopath.
For a while at least. Someone once said to me. With grief. I think that is true. Christianthankyou for taking the time to reply and you are very much correct! It all is so obvious now but even back then I felt something not quite right in my gut! I used to wonder that her marriage was like that because she never really loved him? She said he had so many affairseven slept with her sister which by the way from what I hear, she has very similar traits Funny I was always warned by spath that if ever I got friendly with her sister and even sat and had a coffee with her then we would be over!
All your insites are correct I believe, I was just blinded by the lies! I know now actually outside looking in. The way I feel right now I will find it very hard to trust again or certainly for a long while, maybe this really is a blessing in disguise to sort my head and my life out to get back on the right path!
For the first time in about 4 years I sat and tried meditating yesterday, lit incense today as I really feel that in some way I have caused this by not listening to the inner me!
So yes this is my karma, I accept it, I hurt but if this is what it has taken for me to sort myself out then I am grateful! I bet if you spoke to the ex-husband you would find his story just like yours as he has also been duped by her.
My heart also goes out to you bewildered So sorry for your ordeal. Strength to you and your children. Very proud of my kids, they are remarkably well balanced and happy kids and have and continue to cope brilliantly! Losing their mum, a move across the other side of the world and a disfunctional relationship in nearly 3 years is pretty huge!
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For the past months I kept looking at cards, pictures, and thinking about the fun times we had. I now realize it was the con, the being exactly what I wanted, being the perfect person. It was exactly as described here. It is good to know that I am not the only one that could be taken by someone like this. So, what do I do now? My gut feeling is to warn the new person. But that person is convinced that I am some horrible person that did horrible things and took advantage of my ex.
How could I get them to believe the truth? I now realize that my ex had no friends from their past. That should be a give away. But I didnt see it. So to anyone reading this. What are your thoughts about me trying to warn the new person? I am struggling with this and feel guilty for lettingn them walk into the trap. Hi Deb, I am sure that there are millions of victims around the world.
If each one goes through how many victims? Just think how many of them there are? Yes, you are right, in terms of what you are thinking, yes it was a con. As he had already warned her, and then he looks more desirable than he actually is. You cant get her to see the truth, this is something that she will have to learn for herself.
Try to focus your energy onto you. I am just leaving a relationship if you can call it that with a sociopath who is on every dating sight known to him. I had warned one women he was trying to date and he found out he now tells every women that he meets about me. He tells them I am the Sociopath and I may try to tell them lies about him. He then threatened me if I ever try to contact anyone he knows again he will make sure I hit rock bottom and never be able to get back up. Good luck to all. I found Omgthat sounds like me.
Ann asked me if I knew anything about toilets because hers was broken and the good for nothing ex who crashed on her sofa woildnt fix it. I agreed to pop in and have a look. How easy was that for ner to do. The next day I popped round as agreed and and did the easy fix on her looand then it began. Her ex had been kicked out but came backrashed in the spare room or sofa and wouldnt leave. Was this a red flag? She then proceeded to repeat my story from yesterday about how cruel my girlfriend was and how she wouldnt do that to her boyfriend.
Before I realised it we were rolling about over the floor. For the next six months this carried on with stories ofdont tell anyonewe dont want to upset Rich the ex. Our daughters were in the same classso I brought her with me to play and often spoke to Rich.
He was a rubbish dad and did nothing but play on his ipad her words whereas I was a fantastic single dad. We wnt to the same village functions and hung about all the time and still Rich came to the functions with her.
I used to think he was such a sad case. Six months later she went on holiday with friends and she told me that Rich insisted on going too as he had a ticketbut he would be staying in the friends appartment.
Two days later all hell broke lose when he read her phone texts from me. And I still believed he was an ex that had hopes of getting back with her.
I found she had manipulated things from the start by breaking the loo to get me round. She had used my insecurities from my girlfriend to twist my mind. She told me I was the best da partner soulmate and sucked me in.
I felt soo sorry for her for having good for nothing exthat wouldnt leave. I tell myself that no one could be so calculate but then remember back to the lie that started it allthat bloody broken toilet. Go on dating psycho. If they Google his name hopefully they will find him. I wld like to say thank you to all of tht commntd.
My question is prob going to shock all but wat does the sociopath do with their disorder if they r to recognize it, lets sayor mayb they already do but dont realize tht they r hurting people they really want to love? Wen i went thru childhood and young adulthood, i had too late to realize tht my anger as a rage aholic was killing every relationship i had and tht i truely had an addiction to rage tht needed recognized and changed if i wanted to keep any of those who i loved who were still around.
Thts my example Anyway wat abt the sick person in all ths? Im in love whom im inclined to diagnos as a sociopath and although im now informed, i actually feel much more relieved tht he is not intentionally hurting me and confusing me but he is sick.
Did he choose to b a sociopath? From other material ive read recently, it is very likely childhood related and environment ally induced. The issue being the inability or lack of being taught to trust and thereforeunderstandably, emotionally detatched. Therefore, i wanna love this,man and help him if i can where no one else has tried.
Any thing from anyone will b helpful. Jen, they cannot change their patterns of behaviour. I wrote this website an then returned. He had read everything on this site, he knew who he was. He really tried and wanted to make some change, but he pattern repeated and he went around in the same circle. You cannot help him. You need to understand and realise this.
You cannot help him because the issue is in the brain. They cant even see that there is anything that is wrong with their behaviour. To them they do nothing wrong and if you react to their irrational behaviour you would be the one who is in the wrong.
Any change is only minor and temporary, always the pattern will repeat. I was in a relationship with what i know now as a sociopath. HE convinced me about things i had proof of. Till this day he says he did not. It craziness I tell you! I am over him, as a person. BUT I am not over the love I felt for him. He became everything I wanted in a man. We even planned moving in and getting engaged.
We were going to build our careers together. I thought I was the only one for him and he for me. That we were made for each other. He cried in my arms and went down on his knees in a public place, begging for me to take him back AND I foolishly did. I always had my guard up with men. At this point, he still with the woman he cheated on me with.
I have made a new life for myself, moved into a new apartment, making new friends, going to different places, i even have a new hobby. I pray every night and day for strength to get over this and my prayers are being answered. The best tip I got is: you can never really lose something you never had. So there was no love lost. This sentence really hits home. My heightened sense of self-awareness is a blessing and a curse.
I know the man I met in the beginning was a facade. He has opened up to me about more than I ever expected. Perhaps because some part of him is fond of me. Perhaps to warn me in the future against people like him. It really shows in how he treats other people and how little he regards their feelings. I was convinced he had feelings for me in his own waybut lately things have been a little different. I feel like some of that had to be real, but I have doubt.
Hey he was around in my life, for most of the time that I was writing this blog. SO you might relate, often posts were written as it was happening.
You know, they are exhausting I do believe that they can drive you to the point of insanity. This is my current situation. I finally realize that I cannot change him. I deserve so much better! And mind you it was a long distance relationship overseas yet i made him my world and way so loyal. I pray that I heal and find some peace.
Dearest laila, you will heal in time. It is a process. Grieving a man that wasnt who he pretended to be. It does take time to undo the brainwashing and mind control. That too can be done. They take complete dominance and control over their victim.
Being free is strange at first. I have been in a relationship with a sociopath at least I believe he is for almost 20 years. I am 7 years older than him and when we met I was 44 and he was My daughter at the time was 16 and my son already in the Navy. When me and my S met, he pursued me.
I was not in a relationship and I took him up on his offer. He moved in with me months later. We lasted 8 years before I fond out he cheated on me. I was devastated. Absolutely, he blamed me for throwing me into her arms. Not true.
In any event we worked through it only for him to encounter with another woman who he told I was an old hag. He beat me up in front of my granddaughter who was 9 at the time. After the 6 months were up the court made me move as the house was in his name and I just participated in the payment of the mortgage, utilities, food, etc. I left and found an apartment and moved out for 4 years.
As I was not involved with anyone during that time, I at first told him no. What a joke. He did it again, the cheating and blaming it on me. This time I am so devastated that the hurt has turned into extreme rage wanting to just hurt him so bad.
My goal is to be there for another year or so and move out to another State wherein I can save enough money to move comfortably and not struggle or suffer any financial loss. My answer is Yes I am. What a nightmare, and 20 years of this! Do you really think that you can move on from him, after such a long time of conditioning? I got lucky. Sure I feel sorry for her but she will have to figure it out herself. The truth always comes out in the end. Very long amd dramatic story cut short, I am 12 years his senior.
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We met at work. I sensed he was more than friendly with other lad is at work. He was. I use to kid and call him sly or ladies man. He would convince me of my wrong observation. I was not happy in my relationship prior to him. He felt trapped or obligated so he say in his what he called situation. He persisted. Invited me to a fun event with our team. I went. At this point I had broke it off with the guy I was seeing.
So me and the potential sociopath had sex. We had conversations of friendship but nothing to explore a relationship. He says I automatically required a relationship of him after that. On both parts. I felt he needed love and me learned this about myself and my pattern to rescue was there. I invited him into my home around my family and to church. When I met him he was looking for a church. He told me a couple of months into dating that all along I was right, he had slept with those women and he was in a relationship with someone else.
He told me this at church. It hurt for whatever reason. Maybe because it was a lie from the start. Months of arguing, yelling, name calling and rhe Im sorry lets do better from both parts. He cheated on me and kept company with other women he had slept with. He then suggested counsling, I eventually agreed and he changed his mind. He ended it and I said okay fine I was tired of fighting and arguing and quite honestly tired of trying to decipher the truth.
I cleaned his apartment from top to bottom. Made lunch and waited for him. We ate then talked. I thrn notice lips, someone had kissed his shirt. He then said that was his dads friend when she went to hug him.
I got extremely angry and the yelling started because not only was he lying but even when given the chance to tell the truth he would not. He started to cry and so did I. Days later he told me the truth.
We broke up. He started being with her.
I know this was marks of my own self esteem and worth. Now I do. He had told me and his mother if I just trusted him and stop arguing and created a peaceful environment then he would be happy and we would work.
Now logically my argument was how can I do this when there is a lie every time I turn around. But emotionally I just wanted to see the sweet kind gentle spirit I caught glimpses of or when he would do randomly sweet things.
I wished I could go back and receive them well. But instead for the whole entire year or so, it seems like I was always on guard or edge and he says he was too.
I had a temper where I would yell and scream and I would try and control things or cts of things like who he was friends with on social media he met the girl he cheated with on social media and I woukd show up uninvited to his home. Well it all ended and NOW or I was the one trying to get him to engage. He respected the no contact rule or when I did engage with him and he responded he would say I reached out and he dont reach out, when things would circle back to the cycle and he would tell more lies or half truths.
We were over for about a month and I stopped trying to reach out or engage. He came up to me or waited for me after church to introduce me to his mother she lived out of town and I was curious as to for what he said he did not want me nor was he the one for me and I had FINALLY begun to accept that well I met his mom and the next weekend we all went to go see a movie. I purchased the tickets for them to go and said I will leave your guys ticket at will call.
But he invited me to join them and with self hesitation I did. I was honestly actually excited for him to see me I felt stronger, more secure and had been work in out. I felt at peace. Well in the movie he would grab me and pull me close. He asked if I was uncomfortable I said yes. He flaked. He was with another woman, his ex, that night I showed up uninvited and she was there. I felt so betrayed and stupid and just got hard on myself. And now he just acts like he did nothing wrong it was all if my accusations argumentative nature and control issues that caused everything and I should just moved on regardless.
I wholeheartedly agree that I should I am just really at a loss as to What in the world happened?! I can barely tell WHAT is real versus fake. He was one way then he could ne another. He said he could say the same about me. My comeback has always been to stand my ground and say I came from a place of integrity truth and authenticity.
I am just not sure. This blog was very helpful. I was with my ex for 2 years. After a year I discovered he had these fetishes I was unaware of. He seeked outside of our relationship to fulfil them. We then went to couples counseling, but I never really gained trust back for him. Of course at the time I was delighted but I knew deep down something was not right. I think this way many people would avoid to be involved to sick relationships.
Furthermore,if sociopaths would not feel impunity for their atrocities, they possibly would not be so daring. However, in our days, they feel total impunity, and we feel absolute insecurity. Where do you draw the line between these two types? When I received domestic violence counseling during and after a relationship with a sociopath, it helped me significantly. Both play games, both only care about winning.
They have no heart or empathy. The apologies are fake. Let me know what you think! It comes in a few varied shapes and sizes - unlike the actions of a Sociopath - all Sociopaths think alike and use the very same tactics from Sociopath to Sociopath. Those people are the worst, that haunt you everyday, in some way shape or form. I had been down every Ave. Unfortunately until I was able to forget about the awful things he had done. I was letting him control me. Never again.
We can never say we understand util we have been there. I never knew such evil until I met him. God, he was awful, mean monster. I am so lucky I got out alive. Never ever, ever. I know I am a lucky woman not to have to see or hear this man again. Complete and utter shock. Believe in yourself and watch you will destroy him. I have recently sent my kids to stay with my mother in Florida to get them out of the line of destruction.
I continue to get beaten down by my sociopathic exhusband and mother and it is slowly killing me and already destroyed everything I was and had and ruined my character. There is no experienced help where I live that deals with the aftermath of being with a sociopath. There should be no communication whatsoever between you and the ex-con-man-sociopath. Shifting how you perceived what happened is of utmost importance.
Understanding what a sociopath is an dhow they think is critical. This changes everything. We can always win. I realize there are considerations with your child - more information would be needed to have any comments on that ct - but I will say: sociopaths do not love or genuinely want their children - they will use them as a meal ticket and as a manipulation tool to preserve what they paradoxically crave: a good reputation and not being blamed.
Had to send kids off loosing house n job. Ppl not understanding the total destruction these ppl do to us. I use to have a great life. I was with a narsiccist, sociopath, psychopath whatever one he was for 3 and a half years. I tried and tried for the relationship. I refused to admit he was what he is, that nasty, that evil! Because accepting the person I loved was utterly evil was too hard to do, and crazy. I thought I could get there if I tried hard enough but no. Hence the trying to self heal and focus on me and all the positives thing.
Its incredibly hard.
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I would of rather it of been me like hr claimed as he twisted my own reality when I started questioning myself even when I clearly knew hisnreality was impossible. His truths were lies. His love he progressed was never something he was capable of feeling. Its was all fake. I was the joke. I was busy in my reality loving and defending and feel so foolish and embarrassed. This is my expertise.
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