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For a widow or widower, the thought of dating again after losing your partner will need plenty of consideration. Having intimately shared your life with someone, and with possible plans made for the future, the prospect of finding someone else to share your life with, can feel strange and unsettling. Immediately following bereavement, you and your family have to make adjustments. This can be a challenging time for a widow or widower and coming to terms with this new life state can be hard. They say it takes two years to experience any kind of recovery from the loss of a spouse.
I feel much better. The pictures will slowly come off of the walls and the clothes will go to the Goodwill. His kids love me, my son loves him and his kids. Any thoughts? I think this is great! Keep having fun and enjoying each other.
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Just let it happen. So what if it takes a long time? Just enjoy every day. I am a widow of 19 years and dating a gentleman widowed 7 years. There are times we do well and other time I am in limbo as to what to do or where I stand. I am old enough to not act foolish, but I really like this guy.
I am willing to let time take its course, but there are times i get impatient. Such confusion. You sound exactly how I feel. I appreciate the good times and hold on tight during the tough ones.
Giving him space to work through his feelings is probably the hardest thing. But he always comes back so I just hold onto that. I have really enjoyed reading these tips and comments. I have a few questions myself.
I have been dating a widower for almost 2 years now. He us 68 and I am He was married to her for about 13 years. Yet he stayed with her. She has 2 children who are grown and have children of their own. He is close to them and their children. They call him grandpa, etc. However he keeps wanting me to go with him to visit them and I want nothing to do with it.
I keep thinking it will cure itself. In some ways I think I am being small but then in other ways I feel that our lives together is going to be short as it is and I dont want to be spending it with her children. I would really appreciate any feedback. I am at a loss! I have close friends I have known for 23 yrs. Since meeting them there has always been thisconnection between him and I. Nothing ever happened as we were both married. My girlfriend his wife was diagnosed, battled cancer for 2 yrs and passed away August For 3 months after her passed he pursued me, wanting to date.
We talked about this repeatedly and he kept assuring me he felt ready and that knowing my past history my ex cheated on me would never hurt me. We dated for 7months, there was quilt as he felt like he was cheating on his LW and that he was happy and I felt like I was betraying my friend.
We talked about it but felt that our relationship felt right! He was told by a friend of his LW that she often spoke of me with her friends and even told one of them that she thought him and I would get together.
We felt it was meant to be. After 7months on July 25, due to his job he saw a Psychologist. I told him it was is grief has the 1 yr anniversary of his LW passing was in a few months. During this time on a couple of occasions his angry bubbled over and he snapped at me, immediately apolozing and feeling horrible.
He broke up with me saying he needs time and space. Of course we are both devastated as we were talking about a future together with me and my 2 boys and buying a house and vacationsetc. I have been trying to give him the space and time that he asked for but it is extremely hard.
He has been texting me occasionally and calling me. This has absolutely destroyed me! It has been 2 months and I have my good days but most are bad, I am off work on stress leave and seeing a counsellor. I feel him distant and holding back his feelings and having to do this to help him get through this.
A week ago we spoke on the phone for an hour it was raw, open and honest. He said he has a hole in his heart that somedays he feels it would just be easier to jump in front of a bus, that he thinks of me the minute he wakes up, all day long and when he goes to bed. He admitted that he is running away. He needs time to find himself and learn who he is. I asked him to please not run away from me I understand that need to find himself but I could bare not having him in my life.
I started dating a widower around October and it had been over two years since his wife passed away. We met online, he pursued me like crazy.
He has 3 kids, but none with the late wife. It was long distance, but we met every month and spoke on the phone, FaceTimed, texted, email everyday.
For a widow or widower, the thought of dating again after losing your partner will need plenty of consideration. Having intimately shared your life with someone, and with possible plans made for the future, the prospect of finding someone else to share your life with, can feel strange and unsettling.
He spoke of marrying me one day. He came to my hometown to meet my family. I was scheduled to meet his family not including his daughters and he did not meet my son the week of Christmas One week before I was scheduled to fly into town, he canceled my visit, told me he was depressed because of the holidays.
He brought up his late wife and her daughter saying how much he misses them both. He is still close to her daughter and her family.
I was patient with him and understood he was still grieving. He talked about his late wife every day in our general conversation and even had picture of them saved on his phone as his screen saver so I had to see this every time he opened his phone. I never said anything to him about it. I gave him that. I didnt speak to him or call him for two weeks to give him time to collect his thoughts. He was also seeing a therapist. Then on New Years DayI called to checked on him and found out he blocked my number.
However, he did not block me from contacting him on social media or WhatsAPP. This really hurt my feelings because I did absolutely nothing to him for him to go that far to remove me from his life.
We finally talked and he said it was only until he got his thoughts together and didnt want to be bothered with anyone. Although he told me time and time again he has not loved anyone since his wife died, he told me I made his heart happy again. We made several plans to travel together, sell our homes and buy a home together in a totally different state, travel the world together in retirement.
This hurts too bad! I hope you realize that he did this as a result of HIS issues. This has absolutely nothing to do with you or anything you did. Listen to what he has to say. Please try not to cry anymore. He is out there. Thank you for this blog Jackie and thank you this post Lynette. I also was dating a widower for 6 months and I tell you if ever I thought there was a one, it was him until he shattered us 2 weeks ago but just ending it with meI searched my heart and soul for the past 2 weeks going over what I could have done wrongwe were seriously the most loving couple I had ever seen or known.
We had plans of getting married one day and we were truly happy I thought. Yes we had hit some bumps along the way in the difficult months. I was patient and loving and very kind. I was devastated and hit very hard with the news we were over. He started making decisions for us by himself though which kind of made me unsure if us since those decisions affected our relationship and where we were headed.
So we seemed to go downhill from there but I absolutely admired and loved him with all my heart. But he crushed us when he said we are done. When he broke up with me he had all my stuff hidden in a corner of my house and he was waiting for me when I got home at midnight to break the news. When I asked him, when will I get my stuff, he pointed to the place where he had my stuff in trash bags and said I already packed it all up for you.
Now I feel like he just quickly replaced me with someone else and he started looking while we were in the relationship. Wait a minute. Are you sure he has someone else?
I have a few thoughts. All of these issues are HIS issues and have nothing to do with you. He is very very confused and it sounds like he desperately felt like he needed space, hence packing up your stuff which is really mean, by the way. This is not about me, but about HIM. And, somewhere out there, is a man who wants to receive all the love i have to give.
He sounds really really confused and needs therapy. And, if he is with someone else, those same issues will creep up with her. I be been seeing a wonderful man for a year who was widowed just over two years ago.
He had been married over 30 years. I am separated after 26 years of marriage. We get on so well, he never says anything comparing me to his late wife, however he still wears both their wedding rings and does have pictures of her in his house one of his daughters purposefully put a new one up the week after I met her. It was a photo of her mum on her wedding day. He has even accused me of not loving him on the evening of the day he had booked days off for a joint holiday and we had just been away on a fabulous weekend I have never said anything like this to him.
He is wonderful and I tell him all the time how much I love him. But these out bursts really hurt. I end up calling him and talking to him about how he actually feels. He says he is really scared of being hurt again he then calls and texts to see if we are ok.
I have been dating a widower for over 2 months now. His wife passed away 10 years ago and he has 2 grown children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. I am 48 and he is We share many of the same interests in sports teams, travel, fitness, etc. We connected on a deeper level on a group trip to Hawaii a few months back and we have been exclusively dating since then. There are no pictures of his wife in his house. He told me about 6 weeks ago that during the marriage, his wife left him for another man and had a 5 year relationship with him.
She felt lonely because he was a cop and he worked 4pmam. She took the kids and moved in with her parents. During this time he had other relationships as he was devastated but they never divorced. She eventually ended her affair, took the kids and moved back in with him. He stayed with her until she passed away from cancer. His insecurity manifests itself in anger and almost rage against me as our relationship has progressed or regressed. On the days I can work from home, he asks me to work from his house which I do.
When we go out, he thinks everyone is trying to pick me up. We have a large group of mutual friends. He always tells me he loves me and wants to be with me forever and then after a few drinks, he says these hurtful things but he carries this over to the next day. We have all of these trips and concerts planned and paid for and now he wants to just throw our relationship away. This reply is for Donna. He pursued me for two years before I agreed to go out with him.
His late wife has been gone for 7 years. We were both very good to each other for the duration of this relationship. He often told me that I was the most affectionate and passionate woman including his late wife that he had ever been with. We enjoyed a lot of fun activities together and he often told me that he had fallen in love with me.
He always appeared to be a calm, patient person, but I saw a whole other side to him a month ago. Much to my surprise, he went ballistic over a very minor incident. Since I am a good dancer, I have performed a group routine with my dance group. Also, a family member was flying in to visit him on the afternoon of the performance, so he declined to perform. On the evening of the performance, I posted a group picture and an individual picture of my dance partner and me. The sh-t hit the fan and I received four days of sarcastic, very critical texts from my boyfriend.
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He had known that I was going to dance the routine and he knew who my dance partner was going to be a full week before the performance and never acted upset about it. Now he was ranting and totally out of control, but he would only text me. He refused to talk with me via phone, or in person. I removed the pics and asked via text what else I needed to do to make this right for him.
I did not apologize for participating in the performance, but I apologized six times for it upsetting him. I texted that I loved and cared about him five times. I tried to rationalize that we had shared a wonderful 16 months together and this was just one incident. Nothing worked. Was this the same man who told me how much he loved me the morning of the performance? It was if I were dealing with a completely different person now.
After 7 days of this nonsense, I had to be honest with myself. A man who truly loved me and cared about preserving our relationship would not be treating me like this. He was punishing me. Emotional abandonment is emotional abuse plain and simple. For all of the energy, time, money and love I had lavished on this widower, I did not deserve this kind of poor treatment.
As difficult as it was for me, I decided that I had to end the relationship. If I allowed him to continue to treat me like this until he was good and ready to reconcile, it would set a precedent for future conflicts. We had a cruise paid for and another trip planned. All got cancelled.
Donna, you deserve to be treated with love and respect. Trust me, you are never going to get that from your passive-aggressive widower boyfriend. Get out now before he strips you of your dignity.
Last year, my wife Jo passed away suddenly and my whole world turned upside down. We started going out in and married in She introduced me to a different world I knew nothing about - Koru Club travel etc. We were in our late thirties so it seemed to make more sense to spend time and money on spending time and doing things with family especially the nephews and nieces. By default I think we both felt there were enough children in the world and our families and we could make a difference by supporting and loving them.
They have been my strongest support throughout this whole ordeal. All I miss are the hugs and cheek to cheek to feel the warmth. I have been dating a widower of three years when we met 11 months ago. He had been married for 40 years after marrying his childhood sweetheart at He is very affectionate privately but lacks any verbal affection at all.
He is very attentive and takes me to beautiful places around town. Any Verbal affection I give is never reciprocated. We Tell each other we feel very fulfilled in the bedroom and says he feels the chemistry. Four weeks ago it was like a bomb shell when I asked him if he felt truly ready to move on when we met and whether he was happy with our relationship.
He has never said he loves me and never talks of his feelings. He asked me then to stay with him and be patient. There has also been trouble with his grown-up daughter with her own family accepting me who is not happy to see her dad moving on.
She is quite cold to me and hardly talks to me on family occasions. So the issues are mainly he never talks about his feelings towards me unless I question him when he said he is still Unsure whether he loves me and cannot say it but asked me to be patient. This was 10 months into our relationship. Would love some replies as as I am feeling desperately unhappy since this shock reply.
I should also add that he asked me to go interstate with him for a few days in a couple of weeks time and we also planned a two week holiday this August some months ago, and wondering whether he is staying with me because we have this holiday planned and paid for. He is a highly successful businessman and also has said that he has never been verbally affectionate but that is not my main worry.
He was actually widowed for two years when we met online and I was the second Meeting for him. He has only ever had one woman, his wife, in his life. He moved away from the family home after six months and virtually just walked out and in the same place sense. He often talks gently to his daughter about me and encourages her to be warmer and accepting of me.
I have been dating a widower for 6 months now. He broke it off with her after 6 months because she became to possessive and wanted to move in with him. My brother introduced me to the widower and we hit it off right away. I actually would ask about her and what she was like. His wife and I went to high school together. Well 2 weeks ago, the first lady started showing up at his house and sit in his driveway for hours until he would come out and talk to her.
He was very honest with me while this was going on. He blocked her number and that is when she started to show up at his house.
When should a young widower start dating
He finally had to call the police. I had a heart to heart talk with him and told him, I could deal with him missing his wife but I cannot deal with this crazy behavior of the other woman. Though I feel he has done everything he could to control her behavior. He constantly tells me his heart has turned to stone and he is not the same man he used to be since his wife died.
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My mind is wandering all over the place. I know he is suffering from depression but he will not seek help or take medication. This is his life and he needs to take control of it and do what he needs to, to make this happen. I know what a grieving spouse goes thru as my brother in law committed suicide 5 years ago and what I am telling him is the same thing I told my sister.
Thank you from my heart. I met a widower 2 months ago we live in other states but we plan to meet soon and share videos and text and talk alot. He had a beautiful marriage as he puts it. Me I have had 3 abusive men in a row. I feel since he had a very successful marriage of 28 years we should leave it at that and just be companions She was not that pretty or sexy and I think somewhere down the line some kind of guilt will pop up because of that.
I have always been the one to break-up in the past and consider myself an exceptional woman in every way He is the most amazing man I have ever met. Oh I forgot to say that we both have kids the same age so we will be empty nesters in a year from now and I have 2 older girls.
My son has seen me go through ringer for 10 years with his step father and thinks I should just have a companion too after he moves on after high school. My girls would like to put me in a box and keep all men away from me as they think no one deserves me. It would be selfish for her to want to keep her dad all to herself I think One day at a time! And I always respected that ,and he respected me but taking her pictures down and stopped bringing her up in everything.
We have been together 6 -7 months now and completely happy in love. How will we all? It has helped many women deal with the challenges of being involved with a widower. I appreciate this thread so much. I have been a widow for 6 years.
No reasonable person expects you to forget your spouse. Dating someone new is about finding balance. It's about taking the 8 by 10 wedding photo in the foyer down, knowing that your new girlfriend has no issue with you looking at photos of your wife whenever you want. We feel like if we say anything about taking the physical mementos out of. 10 Dating Tips for Widows and Widowers. I'm including this section of the book specifically for any widowers who might be reading it. Dating again after the death of a spouse can be an awkward experience. It can bring out feelings of guilt or betrayal in the widow or widower. Dating a Widower is your guide to having a successful relationship with a man who's starting over. It also contains 21 real-life stories from women who have gone down the same road you're traveling. It's the perfect book to help you decide if the man you're seeing is ready for a new relationship-and whether dating a widower is right.
A man I have known not well for 25 years lost his wife 10 weeks ago. We met for lunch because he said he had some questions. It was pleasant and we are going for coffee soon.
I am reluctant to get involved because he has been widowed for such a short time. It seemed to during lunch that he would like to at least be friends and do things together. This is fine with me but caution alarms are going off like crazy in my head. I could use some advice on how to proceed. I am open to a deeper relationship but am not interested in moving in or getting married.
Perhaps I should wait for a few signals from him to begin the conversation. He may make it clear that this is just a friendship. I lost my wife of just over 25 years of marriage almost 5 months ago now.
She was my one and only. We were home bodies and really did not have any friends except for ourselves. Reading this type of article actually helps to be able to see the other side of things. Yes I am in therapy, and getting better. The thing that I miss most is the intimacy, i. I do not want to be married again, at least not yetI would like to find someone to share my life with in the future.
I do realize in my heart that I am not ready for any type of relationship, but my mind keeps trying to push me that way. Right now I just want people that I meet, which is not many, that I am a good man.
Any advise from the female perspective would be appreciated. Thank you. I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you had a really special bond. You are in my prayers. I wish you the best in your journey. Well, here goes. His wife passed Junewe met February He went on a few dates prior to me, and said they were not his type.
I believed he was being honest. When I first went to his home it was filled with pictures, pictures and more pictures.
Some pictures were taken down and her belongings were removed from their home at the actions of his children. His children wanted to make it more comfortable for me. I appreciated that, however, I feel he should of taken the initiative. We got engaged April We relocated to a new area, new home. I didnt have chance to decorate and he soon placed her picture in the livingroom. I became upset. When is it enough. He still has her photo as his cell phone screen.
So, he decided to change it with her initials. I understand memories, we all have them. What a tough situation. He needs to work through this if the two of you are going to have a life together. I hope it works out. My first marriage was 27 years. Divorced in I became smitten with a woman from high school with whom I connected on Facebook. We were married in She was diagnosed with breast cancer in and we lost the battle in May of this year.
Back inanother woman had shown an interest in me, but she was in the midst of a very nasty divorce. She had become pretty bitter about it. We never spoke after I become involved with my LW.
A month after my LW passed, we communicated by private message for the first time. A month later we met for a casual dinner.
We continued to communicate. I finally asked her on a date. She admitted to not having any real relationships since her divorce 8 years ago. She said that every time someone got close she would run. Well, she did that to me as well. We got close, and I felt the push come. I was patient. I put some space between us and let her think it through.
When we did finally spend time together, it was very intimate this is a long distance relationship. We have both been well pleased with our time together and apart. I know I am ready. I have been in counseling for 5 months. I discussed this with my counselor, and she was supportive if I felt I was good with it, knowing that there would still be triggers, and certain times of emotion. My new relationship is hard, not because of me, but because my new friend moves toward me, then away.
She now has broken through and says she loves me, and I her. I hope she gives us a chance. I am 62, she is I am still not completely sure that this will be the kind of unconditional love that I had with the LW, but I have hope. Sorry for this being so long. I have been dating a widowerfor 16 months, his treatment of me is wonderful, very affectionate, caring and attentive. The problem is he never talks about his feelings towards me, I have asked him how he feels and tells me he is confused and that His late wife is still very much in his life and heart.
We are both in our mid 60s and he had one lady in his life, a marriage of 40 years. He talks of holidays in the future, in which we have planned a year ahead. He has never been a verbally affectionate person but I am yearning to hear the words I love you after 16 months of relationship.
You have every right to hear those words after 16 months. Is he in therapy? Maybe the two of you could see a therapist together and you could bring this up. I feel for you and yes, you deserve to hear those words. You are not wrong.
Hi Jackie, thank you so much for your thoughts. I mentioned therapy for us together but he said that he felt that he wanted to do this alone, and agreed that he needs to see a therapist as he did shortly after his wife passed away. He has told me he feels guilt, and finds it hard to open up his heart completely to another woman. I brought this A few days ago after it was getting me down and quite overwhelming but still will not discuss his feelings even though I was upset.
So, this is YOUR decision. I will say, my gut says, if he loses you, he will take it much harder than you. Hope that helps. We married in July of this year, and it has been at times, difficult, but mostly, quite wonderful.
There are unique challenges and feelings that I have to identify and put into proper perspective. I must evaluate constantly if the feelings I have are valid and should be discussed, or if they are simply feelings of inadequacy. She was a champion horse rider and her horse stuff is everywhere. Yes, he may have lost his wife of 30 years, but he welcomed me and my son into his life, therefore, room must be made for me. I also wish to say that it is a process, and one that I accepted willingly, and must be understanding and patient, as things do improve with time, and MUCH communication.
And I made quite certain to tell him about this and how I loved it. I hope these words help someone else, who may read this in tears or frustration late one night.
Be encouraged as if he asked you to marry him, realize that the journey will be at times hard, but the reward is a most amazing gift of joy and happiness imaginable! Thank u for these words of encouragement as I really needed them today. My situation is similar to yours in a way My boyfriend and I have known each other since 7th grade and were sweethearts back then. His late wife of 28 yrs was a HS friend of mine too.
It was about 5 weeks after her passing that he starting persuing me. I needed to it so much right now as tears stream down my face. This site has really helped me a out as I have met a wonderful widower who wants to see more of me and I really enjoy his company and attention.
We laugh and talk and both enjoy traveling and jazz. We talk openly and honestly on a lot of things and he talks about his wife with me and we call her by her name. I have no issue with him talking about her because she was his life for 38 years. I appreciate all the comments and learned a lot from them.
Thank you so much for giving great insight and advice. I hope the guy who said he was gonna sell everything and get a backpack to travel gives himself another chance to be happy. I wish all of us well in our relationships. I have been dating a widower for 18 months and both in our mid 60s.
You may want to see my previous post under the same name, things have been complicated but improving. He will be hosting a new years eve party but said if his 41 year old married daughter and her family stay overnight he said he would feel embarrassed and uneasy to share the same bedroom with me so he plans to sleep on the lounge.
As we have been sleeping together all along I find this degrading. I asked him if it had anything to do with his catholic religion and he said yes, which I find quite hypocritical. I said I feel As his partner and a relationship of 18 months if this was the case I would not attend the party, as I would feel hurt and degraded having to sleep in separate rooms. I would really appreciate your opinion. Hmmm, not to be contradictory to the article but this is exactly what I get when dating.
Yeah, of course there are memories, I mean she was part of my life for a long while. But pining after her is not healthy nor is it trying to compare her to someone else. Some of us widowers actually are able to see a woman for who she is on her own merit. And show her she is the only one I want to be with. The peeps that have to have stuff all over the place like a shrine after years of grief are stuck and are fighting to find normalcy. Logically they need to move on, but emotionally they have not reconciled.
I lost my marriage when cancer took over. I had to grieve everyday I woke up knowing I have one less day. I had to deal with guilt asking what is next and deal with the crushing loneliness. The problem I found even with supposed friends is that if you have never been through that, people on the outside have no clue and pass judgment on widows and widowers.
And we have to meet some arbitrary obligations of an archaic gone with the wind mentality. I as a loving husband and a man, stood by my wife, until death do is part.
I cried, I hurt and I felt relief. And that may be hard for most of you to understand. But the relief she is no longer suffering and nor am I. Some of us had time to figure it out before our loved one passed. One of our biggest proof of actions is that we fulfilled our vows and stood there until the end. Lots of insecurities however. Scott, Again, this is an old thread. You want to see a thankless position? Yes its not easy dating a widower.
He used to tell me that he loves me but for the past three months he has not been able to tell me he loves me. He has admitted that he is still in love with his wife that he lost a year and a half ago and he feels like he is cheating on her.
Plus he has two kids and I have two kids which have gotten attached to the idea of us being together. This is the most challenging relationship I have ever been in. Any advice from others would be greatly appreciated. His wife passed away 6 months before we started dating after a long illness. He was one of my best friends and one day he just asked me out.
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He did not share that with me initially. I believe it was a month. He said he wants to marry again. I have let him know, I am here for him if he wants to share - he has fond memories. I would like to see us grow and eventually marry. He invited me over, but I declined. I made the mistake of asking questions that could have waited and he chose not to answer. I feel I am the tester. The first woman he has befriended. Am I the one he is testing the waters with only to move on eventually?
To protect myself, should I gracefully bow outor stay the course. That will not suddenly improve in two more months. He is who he is. Sorry, my money is on letting him be alone. I am with Ronnie. I am an older lady and a professional dater, If I want to vibrate feminine energy in the relationship I must maintain myself as receptive. Keep my dignity and live my own life. Shine who I am and the happiness and beauty of living. Relationships are about relating and it does take 2 to tango.
Someone once told me if you call him he might be busy. If you wait for him to call you know he wants to talk to you.
Compassion has no place in the beginning of dating. This is the jungle. Let him take the lead, no matter how slow or fast the dance. He is just a compliment to your life. I dated a widower for three months. He invited me over to his parents house for Christmas to meet them. Everything was going good, he tells me he really likes me.
We live about 40 minutes apart. He called me up on a Saturday to spend the day with him - he took the day off. That was in February, then he stop talking to me. I text him - never heard from him. He ever gave me any reason. Then all of a sudden, he texted saying he wanted a family. My son is already out of the house. For whatever reason he decided to move on. We spoke on the phone few hours a day -we live 4 hours apart.
Our conversation is happy go lucky. We have been intimate a few times. We had 3 arguments- the first two he was insecure about me. I reassured him. The latest argument was about his son. He said it is over between us. I did not call him for one week then called.
His late wife 1st year death anniversary in few days time. What should I do?
Give him more time until anniversary has passed or is it over like he said due to his anger? I am feeling extremely down this 10 days.
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He never reply to my text messages for 10 days. How you coping? If you need more time please let me know? I seriously need your guidance. Hi Vicky, I know this is hard but you need to let him go. My advice to you is never get in between a man and his children. Leave him be.
Stop all communication and keep your dignity. There is nothing you can do to make a man come back except leave him be. In time, if he was the right man for you, maybe he will come back.
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