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She was beautiful, intelligent, funny, cool, and a sexual dynamo. And she was mine. Or so I thought. Sure, that made all the difference. I felt SO much better. But I agreed. Partly because I was terrified of losing her, but also because I wanted to see just how it would play out.
Men hunts for shoal of ladies and do the romantic maths, narrow them to at least three and go for the kill. Failure is expected but the hit rate is good. Here is the snag. Ladies are not complete idiots as some of us will have others believe. If you hunt like this, the ladies you get are worth their weight in gold, they too do not take nonsense.
It is up to you. Would you rather drive ten minis or an X Class? The beauty of it is, the only quality item on earth you can own without breaking bank is a quality woman. It beggar belief. Look at it, to cure your neediness, we are told to date multiple ladies, dating multiple ladies happens to exposed the bane of relationships-insecurity.
Develop your mind, read wide and develop high taste. You have done it before, you can do it again and again and again so no rash manner, no insecurity that you lack class, parental love that you have to keep dogs like relationships to be The Man.
No, not at all. It is not what men do. Sure a Dog will let most anyone pet on him and scratch behind his ears hell he might even go play fetch but most Dogs know where home is.
Aug 23, How Do I Stop Thinking About My Ex Getting Sexual With Other Guys? David Tian Ph.D. explains why it is hard to recover or move on from a break-up. David Tian Ph.D. talks about the problem that relationship anchors bring. In this Man Up episode, David Tian Ph.D. shares how you can break away from these relationship anchors. David Tian: Boom! Stop. If you want to stop your ex from wanting to date other men, here is what you should do 1. Don't Talk Badly About Other Men. When a woman breaks up with a guy, she may decide that the quickest way to get over the pain is by dating some new men.
Ever seen a cat that would fetch? Cats respond to receiving treats just like most women! Dogs come when they are calledif you love him he will usually be a friend for lifemost of them know where the fence is and stay inside itmost of the time Bwaahaaahaaa. I agree with the article fear based relationships suck! I believe in being honest and I believe in love. You just have to find them. Assuming it does work out good how do you know if you like one person more and want to spend more time?
My girlfriends laugh because I keep saying I need to find one for myself. I literally sat in a coffee shop today that was full of beautiful Asian men and just blushed into my book haha. I actually find them unapproachable and feel that the rejection from an Asian man would be the most serious sort of rejection. Freedom to! You have to become the kind of guy who can bring himself happiness, excitement and fulfillment independently of her.
He has to be selfish and give himself these things before he can give to anyone else. But I feel like there are more things we can do to confront and deal with these insecurities. What are your thoughts Leigh?
There is an irony here on which any guy can contend. When you said that, somewhere, an alpha male is just someone who has complete conviction in what he is doing then it can be a person who has belief in monogamous relationship. Same way if someone wants to sleep with many then its alright for him too?
And why do we men fuss over women so much. Take each of them as they come. For some you might have to adjust a little, for others they will do the same. In my opinion, if you wait for right circumstances to commit you will never be able to.
Another irony! Goddamn hypocrites.
This is hypocritical and stupid. Essentially NONE, the only difference is that one behaves knowingly and the other one has his methods taught from an early age. Yes, early, mostly from the interaction between their mothers and fathers. What men with broken families, with no dads are supposed to do then? Spoken from a PUA with a life with single mom and having a girl of his dreams.
Again, fuck you! This article makes total sense and all of those reasons are perfectly good reasons for engaging in open relationships.
However, I find that monogamous Did I say that right? We all desire freedom and joy and that can take the form of different things depending on what gives us that emotion, and that is the same with women and relationships. We are free to choose to sleep with multiple partners, one partner or none at all.
For different guys, different things. Monogamy, Polygamy, OrigamiWho cares? Get happy then go for what feels right for you, and simply allow others to do the same. Its our choice. Thanks to guys and girls like this we live in a world that is completely messed up, we dont care about each other, relationships between people are superficial. If all of us get the heads out of our asses and start to think about life rather than money, work and sex this planet has a chance to become a better place.
This strategy will only work with certain situations and still could make you lose good people that are potentially worth committing to. Chances of meeting people on the same page and staying on the same page with them with this kind of strategy will likely burn one or the other in the end. If they are on the same page then great, you two can be place holders for each other. Fuck this fucked up brainwashing article! Heyif they want to ride from cock to cock that is their business.
I can kill a guy for sleeping with my beloved one. You can stop trying to persuade others, people are very different. I encourage women I date to date other men for one reason only. I am not hundred percent sure I want to marry A or B. If she focuses all her attention on me and it does not end up in marriage, I will feel guilty. I encourage her not to put her eggs in one basket. This is complete bs to me! Why would I need to date other people if I want to be with someone?!!
This is such shit. This is advice for emotionally unavailable, insecure dickheads and I honestly feel sorry for anybody who treats a woman this way. Man I totally agree! Youre not tough enough to be with her. This is what separates the winners from the losers. Not in society but in your heart! I have very strong ideas about relationships and love. I guess I take quite a traditional view in that I want to find somebody to share my life with - a partner in crime so to speak who shares everything.
I recognise not everybody is the same. It will just make her like YOU less, which jeopardises your chance of ever developing something meaningful wirh her. I personally think people should focus on one person at a time and give that person nothing less than their full attention if they want a happy, fulfilling relationship and to find love. I entirely agree, Iris, and women who advise men they are dating to see other women are not something I have ever encountered.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on relationships, Iris. You want to be in a relationship where you both feel free to share openly.
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That sounds tasty. It also sounds like you value honesty, like real, to the core honesty. Honesty can be confronting. Not many people are up to the challenge of risking it all for the sake of being upfront and honest. The obstacle many guys face is an unwillingness to be vulnerable.
Some guys feel alone often, desire connection, and imagine that being liked or wanted by another person is the outcome they need to feel connected. The problem is not that they want a relationship.
Or that they desire to feel connected to a woman. The problem is that the pathway they use to achieve their desires is self-defeating. They want connection yet they hold back, be shady, and fake what is going on for them so they can get the girl, or hold on to the girl.
Intimate connection in relationships is not achieved when both people are in sole possession of the other, but when both can bask in pure appreciation of the other. Connection with women is not predicated on commitment not saying this is not valuable and importantjust that experiencing meaningful connection with women or anyone is predicated on the ability and willingness to be open and vulnerable, to risk it all.
Rather than experiencing honesty as confronting, its about being honest because doing so is one the most independent ways to feel connected and freely expressive with others especially if those other people also value honesty. I guess in the end you are right, encouraging women to date other men, is about confronting jeopardizing losing your dependence on her to be the solution to your feelings of being alone.
J Martinez - thank you for this. J Martinez, I happened to catch your comment, and as a man in his mid thirties who had struggled with relationships in life, this really hit home for me. Thank you for taking the time to put into words what I could not. Is that the society you wish to live in. Is that the society you wish to create, and leave behind.
You are attempting to change society in such a way, that women will need to change themselves to fit in. They will wrongly believe that being promiscuous is the correct path.
In this world, as humans, we are to learn to control our insecurities, both men and women, and develop together.
You wish step on and bring out the worst in women, in a selfish attempt to feel better about yourself. I pity you, as you were a victim of someone who changed society long ago to what it is now, and are too immature and blind to see reality.
You seem to be afraid of your insecurities, and on the contrary to what you claim to say, your the one who is running away from your insecurities. What kind of authentic, deep relationship can you have when your girlfriend is having sex with other guys?
This advice is no better than the Machiavellian Red Pill bullshit floating around on the Internet. You are no better than PUA.
In fact you are the same, just masquerading as something better. Not all men actually most men out there know how to approach and talk to a woman naturally. There are actually good guys out there with no intention of laying s of women, but just want to learn how to approach and attract one.
You blame PUAs tactics as manipulation? Fine, maybe they are a bit. Did you actually read the points made in the article? Or just read the title and assume you knew what it was about? The content advises men get women they are dating to date other men.
If non-exclusive, casual relationships are your bag then cool. Yes, I did read the article and I find it deplorable.
Eliminating neediness and your insecurities can be done by working on yourself. And you say that you are different. I know that I and most people who are psychologically mature would feel very wrong doing it.
Have you stopped to consider if these ideas are true? The first one, to me, is incredibly limiting and has the potential to cause a lot of problems including jealousy, loneliness, and frustration in your life.
The second one is more of a moral judgement but still limiting, nonetheless. This article has clearly awoken some deeply held limitations in your unconscious and if you take the opportunity to open up, rather than close down, you could learn a lot about yourself and grow through this.
You got it. But in the world of causal playing, it can be beneficial. The author is ultimately suggesting that you have to fuck many women to get rid of your neediness and insecurities, instead of focusing on one. This is a very immature attitude and I feel sorry for anyone who buys into his products. By the way I read both of his books. They are based of off gross generalizations about what the seduction community is.
Great article. Funny enough, the more you do what told in this article, the more she will want to be exclusive with you. Just show you again attraction is very counter intuitive.
Yeah, um if a guy I was seeing came to me and advised me to go out and see other guys I would take it as a huge red flag. But props to you for legitimizing cuckoldness! You guy call all be a bunch of cucks whatevs. You pathetic beta male! I have 4 personal experiences with letting my girlfriend have sex with other guys. Each with its own out come. I consider just sex and love 2 difference things so has long has she told me i was ok with it.
Never any race issues or homophobic traits. My current girl is white and 2 of my ex girlfriends were white and they fucked black guys raw in my bed multiple times. Hell three even stayed a week with me and my current girlfriend and we all take turns at her. The opposite happened to me recently.
A woman i was seeing started to talk about wanting to be FREE to date other men after she got off anti-depressants. Then something happened to her that brought us back together. Everything was good for the first 3 weeks or so and then the last time we were together after a night of making love- the next night she said she wanted to be free to see other men and not be in a committed relationship but that she was very comfortable with me physically.
I played along with the dialogue to see where it would go. Would you let me know? I guess you can say it turned into goodbye sex. She admitted to leading me on and realized it was not healthy behavior and I told her to call me if she ever wanted to just be with me.
The freedom of the internet has confused many poor souls who have been hurt and instead of getting real help they read articles that encourage them to be FREE! The truth is that it takes vulnerability to keep it fresh and work things out with one person. One has to take their armor off to do this. Lower consciousness is claiming to be free but really chasing Neuro-chemicals for a fix.
Just a different kind of drug. To the addict, relationships are boring. Very ambitious, very fucking stupid, what could possibly go wrong? My apologies for spelling or grammar issues. It started as a teen around somewhere around that age. However, it matured into who I am today around 19 I could tell many stories of sex that most would not believe.
However, it seems you are getting plenty of that here. The person who commented This post is great for fantasy but not in real life it cause more issues Not trying to be rude. However, Those are the words of a weak person. There is nothing that this lifestyle can bring that I have not experienced, felt or seen. To the writer of this post. My wife came across this post and shared it with me. She was right, It nice to see others have gained the strength to not let their simple-minded weaknesses rule their life.
I will list a few big things like the author did. It makes for some hot crazy intense sex. If you have not fucked out wife after she has been with another man. You are not living only creeping by. I promise your girl will give you the best sex you ever had. It makes for a very strong bond between two people if it moved into marriage or life commitment. The odds of your marriage lasting a lifetime are increased by a large percent. Cons to this way of life. Only the cons you allowed society and your mind to create.
Dude if she leaves you for another. She is not the right girl for you. I speak out to men as I feel they are weaker minded than women in most cases. The author is right though. You have to be a strong person to live free. Their weak thoughts get in the way of there life. It also is the proof you are weak. Only being honest. If anything I would like to help the weak become stronger. It will strengthen you in a countless way. The human mind is designed this way all us men and women alike.
All men desire sex with another mans girl. We unconsciously want to put our bloodline in another bloodline without the male knowing. However, it gives the desired result all the same.
There was a study in the group about 10 years ago. I will try and find it.
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The study was about sex, lust, desire, and passion. The did a study with 20 men and 10 women. They lived together for 90 days. Sex naturally started within the first 3 days of living together.
My ex girlfriend sleeping with other guys?
To keep this short. It showed that women who had sex with one man. It showed in the end that the men were naturally having sex with other women within minutes to an hour after the woman has sex with another man. If you ask the men what woman they wanted. It showed women, had more sexual pleasure fucking the second man because it was dirty and hot. It showed women were sexually drawn to the men having the most sex.
It also showed when all were ask not to have sex for a few days. The women would seduce the top men, not the best looking. This is driven by lust and passion. However, the reason behind this is what I stated above there is a primitive drive behind this behavior and very natural one at that.
When the experiment was over.
The womon that had the most sex. This is just one experiment. I still get to have sex with other women every now and then. My wife did not live this lifestyle when we met. The only thing it has done to out very happy life together is make out passion, lust, and desire for one another strong very strong.
Sex with other is just that sex. My wife is my everything. I love the way she drives me crazy. Hope this help make someone find the strength to fight their self-made demons. I think your logic is based on a percentage of women and men in a given society hint: western culture and also has to do with age group. On the other hand, same woman in her early 20s can continue experimenting about sex with multiple men with worries about relationship.
Same logic can be applied to men. Why do you need to even be in a relationship at the first place then? Without sexual commitment - I want her out of my home! I can tolerate women in my bed for sex, but not living with her if she keeps on fucking other guys.
So, I dumped him. Figured he had another woman he was hitting on. This article is not for the faint of heart or doe-eyed lover boys who long for their true love.
My ex girlfriend is dating other guys
I summed it up as a chit test for if your woman will be promiscuous or not. If she shows she just wants to be with you she maybe long term status. Men must confront their insecurities for their own betterment or end up with a broken heart ready for violence. My two cents. Excellent POV. I enjoyed it. Yeah, I guess it is a good way to test slutiness, but do you really think it would be productive for a woman to say the same to her boyfriend?
It would be useless, really. There are no rules literally NO rules on how to behave, or act, or respond to shitty behavior. This little treatise on how to pull women in by giving them the illusion of leeway is everything wrong with society.
The dating world has become obscene, boring, and obsolete. I know how men like to complain that women are whores, but the very same thing could be said about men, to the point that dating has become more of a nuisance than anything. A year ago I was worried about losing my pride or feeling betrayed 4 month ago I had an epiphany I opened my eyes to the nonsense. Tinder, okcupid all these online meat markets People see potential dating partners.
You know what I see? I see walking STDs, parasites, possible contaminants. Bam antibiotic resistant chlamydia! All for what? Something I could have done at home by myself or with erotic toys from the sex shop! Not to mention all the disease that could be spread with a condom: herpes, genital warts, crabs, amongst other delightful pathogens. Sex is a filthy, collective f ck fest, as dirty as gym showers or communal toilets. So yeah. No thanks. Being scared is well as hell.
I love you and I hope that we can have another chance to be together one day. He loves me so much - I should go back to him! At the meet up, you can then get her respect back, make her feel more attraction and move towards a hug, kiss, sex and then begin seeing each other again.
If you want to learn what to say and do at each step of that process, I recommend that you watch my awesome, proven to work program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System. Although getting her back might seem impossible to you right now because she is is already dating someone else, if you are prepared to do what it takes, it is entirely possible to get her to dump her new boyfriend and come back to you.
If that is what you want to achieve, here are 3 important things you should do as soon as possible:. In most cases, a woman will only break up with her man when he stops making her feel the way she wants to feel. For example: If a man continues to neglect his woman or place her needs last or close to last, she will eventually get tired of being treated that way. Likewise, if a man becomes too clingy and jealous and tries to control or suppress her, she will naturally lose attraction and respect for him and she will look for ways to let him know.
Alternatively, she may start opening herself up to meeting and hooking up with a new guy who can make her feel the way she wants to feel. So, before you can get your ex back you have to understand the real reasons that caused her to lose love and attraction for you. By understanding the true cause of her unhappiness, you can then change those exact things and become the type of man she really wishes you would be.
When you contact her and see her in person, she will be able to pick up on the fact that you really have changed in the ways that are the most important to her. A common mistake that guys make is when they realize what they did wrong in a relationship, they then rush to get in touch with their ex and make promises to change if she comes back.
If, on the other hand, you put in some effort to fix your issues e. These days, a lot of guys waste too much time and energy hiding behind text messages to women.
This applies to guys who are trying to get dates with new women and guys who are trying to get an ex back. According to many studies conducted by social scientists and psychologists, most of the communication between two humans is comprised of body language and tonality.
The only time you should text her is to get her on the phone so that you can make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you. Part of the reason it hurts so much is that it can make you feel insecure about yourself as a man and your ability to attract new, quality women.
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