Excellent, dating someone with the same first name as your brother right! Idea
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Send questions for Cecil Adams to: cecil straightdope. Your direct line to thousands of the smartest, hippest people on the planet, plus a few total dipsticks. I know this seems really shallow and possibly pointless, but I have to know if it's just me with this phobia. My sister's name in not that uncommon, I don't come across it often, but it's out there. I don't think I could be really comfortable dating a girl with the same name.
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Both it can be a little weird, but it only gets intolerable if you over complicate it. AOgixxer Xper 5.
Jan 30, With your story about meeting two people with the same name, I think you may you have a twin sister. Talk to your mother and try to find some details. It's funny, but it just came to my mind, and I decided to reply to your message. Sep 19, After all, you're not actually dating your sibling, and they may not even share any personality or physical traits with them. They just happen to have the same name. I dated a woman with the same first name as my mom for about 3 months, to top it off, she was about 10 years older than me. there were certainly some awkward moments, and i could never bring.
It'd be weird to me. I think it'd be less weird the more common the name was. Like dating a Mike when I had a brother named Mike wouldn't be that bad, but dating an Xavier if that was my brother's name would be terrible. My guess on this is that guys would care less than we do. That's usually how it works, and as long as your name isn't really unusual he's probably had crushes on girls with that name before. Through a dating site, a man with a name David found me, and we started chatting.
I hate to say I left him. I was not ready to commit again. I still want him and keep him until I am ready. The father of my son is Ryan, the father of my youngest daughter is Ryan too, who both neglected their kids, and my friend who turned out to be a bad friend is also Ryan.
Like dating a Mike when I had a brother named Mike wouldn't be that bad, but dating an Xavier if that was my brother's name would be terrible. My guess on this is that guys would care less than we do. That's usually how it works, and as long as your name isn't really unusual he's probably had crushes on girls with that name before. Dec 16, The weirdest thing is dating someone who has the same name as an ex. One of my friends has been with four different men called Mark. That's kind of creepy for some reason, i dont wanna date girls with the same name as my mom or my cousins because they could end up with the same last name. Jan 26, He had the same name as my brother. My brother dated a girl with my name they married and was married 50 years. So i guess it works. It would be weird for me, but my sister-in-law and her sister both married men with the same first name and seem to have no problem with it.
I meet lots of people with the same names around similar times, or soon after, and I take it as a good sign. Like if I know I love and trust this person, then this new person with the same name is safe as well.
Dating someone with the same first name as your brother
And Michael! So many Michaels. Throughout my life, I have met men or had relationships with men named Scott. It can be a coincidence. My first crush high school sweetheart and now as an adult. While single in high school, all the boys I met were named Scott.
My best friend would just laugh. It must be a life lesson.
Three relationships spaced out about ten years. Almost like I cared more, and they were ok to lose me. All very funny personalities. By the time they were serious, I was at a point where I had lost interest.
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Oct 11, Don't think too hard about it. Dating someone with the same name as you isn't that serious. It really isn't as big deal as you may make it to be. Try to have a sense of humor about it. Your name doesn't define who you are as a person. It is only a Author: Matthew Garza. I used to date someone with the same name as my sister. It was a bit weird at first, but I quickly got over it. My sister used to date a guy with the same name as me and ended up pregnant. The kid is only 2 years old, but I can imagine it'll create some confusion in the . Someone messages you, they sign off with their name and it's the same as your parent or sibling. Does that factor into your response? GF just said that if I had the same name as her dad (and had a more basic profile) she absolutely wouldn't have responded.
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Would you date someone who shares your sibling's name? Was in a good back-and-forth fling on okc earlier today with a girl when I decided to ask her out for coffee and do a name exchange in the same .
Never thought of that. I guess I would but if a girl had the same name as my mom I guess it may be kind of awkward. Well wouldn't the dating and relationshipoccur first? It wouldn't be like "Hey the relationship came this far but marriage is where I draw the line because of your name, I didn't consider any any iof thsbeforehand. It just suddenly dawned on me. Marriage wouldn't even be a factor becauseif the name were a problem the relationship would end before it could even escalate to the point of marriage.
I don't know why anyone would start any relationship with anyone if marriage isn't alreadybeing considered. Other than a tendency to favor erratic behavior. I dated a woman with the same first name as my mom for about 3 months, to top it off, she was about 10 years older than me. I almost never call her by her actual name. My best friend though has gone out with 3 seperate girls who all have his sisters name.
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